Ask Roseann – the most Wickedly Good Matchmaker on the Planet!
People think that if you’re turning 40 and you’ve never been married, there’s something wrong with you. You are either commitment phobic, have abandonment issues (both could be true), or there is something men learn while dating you that makes them want to date somebody else. Maybe you do that to them! And maybe you need to stop.
It dawned on me, I am putting two threads of advice into this piece that are both important. One about selecting men who are unavailable and the other about behaviors you’re bringing into your relationships that are keeping you safe from going the distance with anyone. So I’ve written a follow-up post with how to look at what your behaviors are and identify what’s behind them.
The first thing I look at when I am at an event hunting for super eligible single men and women is so simple, you’ll be surprised. Yes, physical attraction and appearance are the visual first takeaway I see from a distance. But when I get up close, there’s one universal quality that all men and women are drawn to. It’s the same for this matchmaker. I look for genuineness in their smile.
Cameron Diaz has that smile nailed! She has one of the quickest, most inviting smiles I can think of. Can you think of anyone who smiles this big? Feel free to post it in the comments. When Cameron Diaz smiles, it feels like she’s happy to the core. She’s portraying she is going to be fun to be on a date with. Besides her being a long-legged, blue-eyed blond (hey-ey, me, too!), her smile has attracted Matt Dillon, Jared Leto – who told Details magazine he saw no point in marriage, and Justin Timberlake – who is engaged to Jessica Biel.
A recent ex of hers, New York Yankees star Alex Rodriguez, said Diaz is “probably one of the greatest human beings I’ve ever met, and just an amazing light” in an interview with Kevin Frazier for TheInsider.com. Attracting men has not been a problem for the famous Hollywood actress. She’s had multi-year relationships.